I just enjoy to reveal in pictures the reality of some boys' life nobody never cares about, before we go back to total indifference. Thank you!
Friday, November 18, 2011
Matriarchal power
Another banal story which happens mostly in the increasing number of divorced couples, when the mother has to raise her son alone. You may have heard of similar stories of matriarchal power in your neighborhood, and what happens between these four walls is not our business indeed.
I just enjoy to reveal in pictures the reality of some boys' life nobody never cares about, before we go back to total indifference. Thank you!
I just enjoy to reveal in pictures the reality of some boys' life nobody never cares about, before we go back to total indifference. Thank you!
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Alex,
ReplyDeleteThis was definitely the case for me growing up. My mom raised me alone from age 8 on and used bare botttom hairbrush spankings as the key form of discipline.
Mitch
ALEX, THIS WAS MY SITUATION. MY HALF SISTER AND I WERE RAISED BY MY STEP MOM, SHE WAS LOVING AND FAIR BUT A SERIOUS BREACH OF HER RULES MEANT A STERN SCOLDING AND A TRIP OVER HER KNEE FOR A SERIOUS TASTE OF THE BUSINESS SIDE OF HER AWFUL HAIRBRUSH ON THE BARE SEAT. THE STING LASTED FOR DAYS AND WE BOTH GOT IT WELL INTO OUR TEEN YEARS. OUCH, OUCH OUCH. SINCERELY, QUINN AND SHARON
ReplyDeleteIf this page is somehow linked to your own experiences, I hope it makes sense to you!
ReplyDeleteIf it happenned to you when you were younger and your internet search has lead you to this page, you must be fascinated by such discipline and maybe trying to live it again?
ALEX, CERTAIN ASPECTS OF YOUR SITE CERTAINLY DO BRING ME BACK TO MEMORIES OF MY YOUTH AND I'M SURE MY SISTER WOULD AGREE IN FACT
ReplyDeleteSHE INTRODUCED ME TO THE SITE........ MY MEMORIES OF BEING SPANKED WELL INTO MY TEEN YEARS ARE NOT FOND MEMORIES FOR ME. IN FACT I DREADED EVERY MOMENT I SPENT OVER MOM'S KNEE.THEY WERE PAINFUL SHAMEFUL EXPERIENCES AND NOT THE TYPE OF THING THAT I AM ANXIOUS TO DISCUSS WITH MANY PEOPLE. BY THE SAME TOKEN I GUESS I MUST GET SOME COMFORT OUT OF KNOWING THAT A NUMBER OF PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES SUFFERED FATES SIMILAR TO WHAT MY SISTER AND I EXPERINCED. PERHAPS MISERY LOVES COMPANY OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT. I DO NOT BELIEVE I AM FASCINATED BY THE SUBJECT ITSELF AND I CERTAINLY DO NOT WANT TO LIVE IT AGAIN BECAUSE TO THIS DAY I CAN STILL REMEMBER THE TERRIBLE STING OF MOM'S HAIRBRUSH ON MY BARE SEAT. I THINK THE POWER THAT DRAWS ME TO YOUR SITE IS BEING ABLE TO REFLECT BACK ( FROM A SAFE DISTANCE) TO A TIME WHEN MY MOTHER LOVED AND CARED FOR ME AND ALTHOUGH THE OLD FASHION OVER THE KNEE BARE BOTTOM SPANKINGS SHE ADMINISTERED WERE PART OF THAT PERIOD THEY WERE JUST A RELATIVELY SMALL PART OF AN OVERALL WONDERFUL TIME OF MY LIFE.............SINCERELY, QUINN
Many of us interested in this subject first experienced it as a result of matriarchal discipline. I had both spankings and other forms of embarrassing experiences including 'inspections for cleanliness' and bath time checks. I understand Quinn's "painful shameful experiences", however for some of us these became somewhat arousing experiences; which takes me to your point Alex about trying to relive them again. This is a common theme for many of us. You blog serves many of these memories, keep up the good work. I'm always willing to discuss directly with others our experiences.
ReplyDeleteSo Quinn, somehow it's postive that you are visiting this page and similar ones : )
ReplyDelete1) you discover that many people were punished like you
2) even if you disliked the spanking (this, I can understand!), it reminds you of a happy period of your life
Can I sum up this way, or is there something else?
Thank you very much Oberon. I'm a bit busy at the moment, but surely next week-end I'll find time to do something new
DEAR ALEX, I AGREE WITH YOUR CONCLUSION. IT WAS INDEED A HAPPY TIME IN MY LIFE. MY STEPMOTHER WAS STRICT BUT VERY FAIR, I HAVE TOLD MY SISTER MANY TIMES THAT I NEVER RECEIVED A SPANKING I DID NOT DESERVE. I WILL SAY THAT I SAY THAT SOMEWHAT IN HINDSIGHT BECAUSE I DO NOT BELIEVE I NESSARILY FELT THAT WAY AT THE TIME I WAS BEING SPANKED.A SPANKING FROM MY MOM WAS A VERY PERSONAL PRIVATE EXPERIENCE. DESPITE THE PAIN AND SHAME AT THE MOMENT I DID ALWAYS FEEL CLOSE TO HER AND SHE WAS ALWAYS CARING AND COMFORTING SHORTLY AFTER SHE FINISHED SPANKING MY BARE SEAT. I DO DEFINITELY BELIEVE THAT YOUR SITE GIVES ME SOME SOLACE THAT MANY OTHERS WERE DISCIPLINED IN A SIMILAR MANNER AND THAT THEREFORE MY SITUATION WAS NOT ALL THAT UNUSUAL.I DO HAVE TROUBLE UNDERSTANDING WHY ANYONE WOULD WANT TO RELIVE SUCH A PAINFUL EVENT BUT I GUESS WE ALL HANDLE ISSUES SOMEWHAT DIFFERENTLY. IN ANY EVENT I GET A NICE WARM FEELING WHEN I SEE YOUR WORK AND I THANK YOU FOR YOUR INTEREST IN MY PARTICULAR CASE. MOST SINCERELY, QUINN ( WITH SOME VERY HELPFUL IMPUT FROM MY SWEET SISTER SHARON)
ReplyDeleteHi Alex, I think some boys do feel a desire to go back and recall the spankings we ladies have given them .I have spanked my two sons and one is stil at home and regetfully Ifind it necessary to still spank him although he is 20!
ReplyDeleteYou have captured a wonderfull smile from the Mum spanking her son! I think she has only just started with her hair brush ,looking at his light pink bottom !
I think she like me welcomes the support of her sister or other female relative or friend! In this case I wonder if his cousin-shortly to be a bride-is with her as they have been training her in the art of spanking young men including her husband to be! Young women benefit from pre marital spnking training! How hard to spank how many whacks an what is the best implement to use ! These are skills to be learnt by Brides
and there is nothing like practice !
Best wishes Diane
Thnak you for your input Quinn : )
ReplyDeleteDiane: the initial idea of this picture had also the SISTER of this boy helping her mom! So you can tell I was close to your idea initially.
But it didn't turn out too good, and the result is this. Still, I like it. The expression of the mother especially : )
Dear Alex: first of all thank you for quoting my thoughts. Secondly, I fully agree with your replies to your other fans, and most recently to Diane. But I must express a serious concern. Please choose your "mama's boys" in your little vignettes with more of an eye to credibility and safety. For the idea of the Mammone, the adult son who still lives under his mother's roof and tied with every passing day more and more tightly to Mother's apron strings, to be believable, he must also look the part. A Mammone by definition is a young adult. Or even not so young, as seen in Europe. Surely the mother's face would show even more delight at the evidence of her, now only rarely contested, Matriarchal Power over a son who even by his looks, ought to have flown the coop years ago. Ought to have, and would have so much wanted to, had certain shameful habits not been brought to light and diagnosed as chronic. Under the Matriarchal Rules, that condemns him to Mammone status until he marries. And that will happen only with La Mamma's permission, if at all, and of course to a bride of Mother's choosing.
ReplyDeleteBy that time women his own age will be less and less available, because of demographics and due to the ridicule he inspires in the female half of the population. Surprise visits by his sister don't help either, as she is often accompanied by selected girl friends.
That leaves him with the prospect of the Older Wife, who would enthusiastically continue where Mother might have left off. More likely, Mother's regular visits to his new Matriarchal home will lead to a flowering of creativity as regards his disciplinary regime, now under double matriarchal rule.
A Catch-22 situation indeed : )
ReplyDeleteI never said the Mammone is automatically free when he reachs 25 ! Some are trapped all their life. Shall I use older models in the future?
Yes please!
ReplyDeleteLove this scenario. Captivated by the home and never psychically readied to leave
ReplyDeleteThe Matriarchal network is invaluable in giving physical and moral support to a Womyn a Mother in this case.We see that friend a doctor is part of this.My those pschological evaluations to test his adherance to obedience to Female rule are thorough.
ReplyDeleteThe moder Mother understands that boys ar meant to masturbate but only with their Mothers supervision or permission.It helps train them for a possible future of a strict chastity regime.A loving Mother wants to know how her son is developing and what and who turns him on.She might chose the material he is allowed to view of read or she might just want to know what gets him hard.It all helps with her choosing a future Wife for him.
It mentions her assistance so perhaps a hands on approach is needed at times.This may be because the son has fixated on the Mother.This will become increasingly likely the longer he is under her roof.
As others have said the responsibility of the son does not end when he leaves the nest.The Matriarchal network demands that he return to clean and to serve his Mother and Sisters Aunts etc.
There may be friction between Mother and Wife over the amount of time or the number of spankings he receives but if the Mother chooses wisely for herself and her son these can be smoothed over.
Like the regression aspect with the oil and the nappy about to be applied.He is what ever age she chooses to allow him to be depending on his behaviour.
Femsup
Brillant description of things implied Femsup : )
ReplyDeleteSexuality is a serious thing and Boys are not mature enough to deal with such feelings, better to have Mother's supervision - on eveything.
It inspired me another artwork on Matriarchy, should be finished tomorrow, thanks to you
many years ago when I was a 20yo male both my parents worked. I got home and looked after my grandmother (mum's mum) Nan said you young boys are ill disciplined and needed a good spanking I thought my Nan was batty and I'm ashamed to later find out it was dementia. She caned my bare bottom daily, forgetting she spanked me the previous afternoon. Nan would ask me who striped my bottom forgetting it was her. I said Mum gave me a few swats. Nan said she would add a few extra Nan forgot caning my bare bottom an hour later so it never worried me
ReplyDeleteI was never spanked as a child. I married at 20 to a woman who grew up in a family that spanked. I must admit I found the stories of my new mother in law spanking the kids arousing. There was a specific ritual that always began with scolding followed by the offenders pants being lowered and a serious spanking with a hair brush followed by cornertime with pants still down. I found the mental image of my wife and siblings over knee and in the corner as I said arousing. My mother in law had asked me if my mother had taken my pants down and tanned me, and when I told her no she said it showed. I got a strange twinge when she questioned me. One day when I was leaving something at her house she confronted me and said I had been very rude. She told me she was going to give me the spanking I should have gotten growing up. At first I thought she was kidding but when she grabbed my ear and started dragging me to her room in knew she was plenty serious. When she produced a short strap I thought for a split second of bolting, but she was blocking the door and I was in some way frozen. She started scolding me telling me In detail what I had done and what was about to happen. When she started to unfasten my pants I resisted but she slapped me really hard and seeing stars I stood still as she pulled my pants and underpants down. She bent me over and stood on my pants around my ankles. She was amazingly strong and I couldn't move. When she started the strapping I couldn't believe how much it hurt. I wanted to reach back to block the strap but she grabbed my arm and I was helpless. I don't know how many times the strap landed but it was wrapping around and hitting me on my hip as well as my butt and tops of my legs. I was crying and begging her to stop promising to be good. When she let me up my hands went to rub the fir out . She dragged me pants still around my ankles to the corner . Any thoughts about finding the idea of her spankings exciting were permantky laid to rest. That was decades ago and I still think about it a lot. I avoided doing anything to anger her , this was not something I ever wanted again
ReplyDeleteAh les mamonnes ! Un phénomène qui se répand de plus en plus ! Ces garçons dont la vie est régit par leur mère, dont l'emprise est chaque année toujours plus grande !
ReplyDeleteLe réseau matriarcal consolide le pouvoir de la mère et fait obstacle au garçon, et voilà que ce dernier ce retrouve bloqué dans un engrenage dont il ne pourra sortir.
Le réseau, constitué de la mère, des tantes, des amies et des collègues de travail de la mère, du médecin familiale et autres, sait TOUT sur la vie du garçon !
Sa santé, sa vie familiale, scolaire, affective et sexuelle (inexistante, ou plutôt masturbatoire).
Il se retrouvera à 24 ans, niais, tandis que les garçons de son âge auront vécu de belles expériences.
Il sera considéré comme le gentil garçon, sur qui on peut compter, mais ne sera jamais considéré comme un homme.
Ses cousines connaissant sa vie, ne voient en lui qu'un enfant mignon et aimable. Même chose pour les filles des amies de sa mère.
Les visites médicales se font nues, sur demande de la mère, afin de vérifier chaque parties du corps. Le médecin, connaissant le pucelage du garçon, vérifie ses capacités érectiles, "au cas où", sous l'œil intéressé de la mère.
Telle est la vie des mammones !
Avoir quelques "gentils garçons" dans une communauté, c'est l'assurance que les femmes puissent se venger des hommes sans mettre en péril la structure familiale. De plus, le regard du puceau flatte les jeunes voisines dans leurs habits d'été, et même sa mère aime se sentir toujours désirable quand son décolleté déborde. La société dans son ensemble s'en porte mieux, l'assistante sociale ferme à chaque fois les yeux, un sourire en coin
ReplyDeleteExactement. Les gentils garçons sont des défouloirs pour les femmes. Un moyen de riposter au patriarcat. C'est une nécessité qui relève du bien-être mental féminin.
ReplyDeleteL'assistance sociale le sait très bien : il faut éviter de mettre trop d'aplomb dans leur cœur et empêcher tous les aboutissements pouvant donner de l'assurance aux garçons.